We talked a lot about safety, especially triggered by Question 3 and Question 10. It seems like we all agreed that we try to be safe, not only physically but especially emotionally, and that we often try to do that by protecting ourselves from getting into the "wrong" relationships. However, we realized that it's not easy, and maybe not possible, to find out ahead of time who is and who is not "safe" for us emotionally; we need to give ourselves time and lots of experience to figure that out with any particular person.
(This video was reviewed by Bob McGarey)
Feel free to come and share your own personal insights sometime; the Saturday Night Video and Discussions here in Austin, Texas are a lot of fun and fascinating. (They're free, too.) Here are the questions the group came up with, based on the personal growth themes in the movie: